Monday, February 11, 2019

SILENCE


A meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words.
Silence isn't empty, it is full of answers.

People will forget what you said,
People will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel.

Sometimes it's better to just remain silence and smile.


Wednesday, December 26, 2018

在生命尚未結束前 ...


如果我們每天醒來皆確知,告訴自己生命終有一天必須散會,在生命尚未結束前,我們絕不會像多數日子多數狀況下,把有限的生命任意拋棄,如同拋棄一片果皮。不久之後,我們都將慢慢變老,然後離開人生舞台……
請不要懷疑,每一個人皆如此。你的時間真的有限,一格一秒,一分一流逝,請不要浪費在悲傷裡。

記得,在該微笑的時候微笑,在該歡樂的時候歡樂。勇敢踏上所有的生命旅途,年年月月,分分秒秒,直到最後向世間致上最後的留戀,我們才好好、無憾地離開。

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

聰明 & 善良

「人生不止需要聰明,還需要善良。聰明讓你看穿一個人,看穿人性;善良讓你理解一個人的難處,教你放下。」

Wednesday, October 24, 2018

「裝傻」

不該說的話別說,不該管的事別管,不該惹的人別惹,不該生的氣別生;學會裝聾作啞,學會適當裝傻,是一種能力,更是一種境界!眼,裝瞎才不會流淚;嘴,裝啞才不會惹禍;耳,裝聾才不會傷心;人,裝傻才會活得輕鬆,有時候知道的多了,未必是件好事。發現了真相,疼的是心;戳穿了謊言,冷的是情;以為牢不可破的關係,其實也不堪一擊;裝糊塗,也是一種智慧!

要想在這個現實社會站穩腳跟,有時候就要學會裝聾作啞。不該說的話別說,不該管的事別管,不該惹的人別惹,不該生的氣別生。眼,只有裝瞎才不流淚,嘴,只有裝啞才不惹禍,人,只有裝傻才會輕鬆。

裝傻,不是真傻,而是糊裡糊塗,不計較。裝傻,不是毛病,而是心胸寬廣,不記仇。現實的社會,複雜的人心,理,不要爭得太明白,事,不要弄得太清楚。理,爭多了傷感情,事,弄明白心會痛。

裝傻,不是沒有底線讓步,不是沒有原則寬容,而是顧全大局,心裡有數,不理是非,不增仇恨,不添煩惱,不生悶氣。裝傻,看似糊塗,實際精明,話不說得太滿,事不做得太絕,與人方便,給自己方便,給人讓步,留自己後路。

人,太精明未必是好事,越算計,越疲憊,越精明,越不寧。傻人有傻福,精人添憂愁,凡事自己心裡明白就好,何必說出來,惹人煩,何必算清楚,惹仇怨。

走過的路,才知道有短有長;經過的事,才知道有喜有傷;品過的人,才知道有真有假。看懂一件事,你就長大了。看清一件事,你就開竅了。看破一件事,你就理性了。看透一件事,你就成熟了。看穿一件事,你就到頭了。看淡一件事,你就放下了。裝傻一點點,你就簡單了,就快樂了。

人生的最好境界:裝傻!大事化小,小事化了;事大事小,能過去就好!誰真誰假,誰奸誰傻;眼裡看清,心裡清楚就好!是也罷,非也罷,是是非非爭個啥!聚也好,散也好,隨心隨緣最主要!

---文:看头条 ---


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Wednesday, September 19, 2018

結婚後,女人養成這「四種習慣」,會越活越好看!

女人無論多忙,也請記住要逼自己養成這四個好習慣:
1)學會和自己獨處,好好愛自己,讓自己擁有更多的定力;
2)堅持看書和學習,女人才可以永葆成長的魅力;
3)堅持培育自己運動習慣,讓自己身體處於最好一種狀態;
4)堅持不要在背後議論別人,而是幫助他人,為自己存續福報。
一旦我們習慣養成,女人你將越活越漂亮,也將贏得更多的人尊重。

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

Important Life Lesson

Steve Jobs' last words
He died a billionaire at 56yrs of Pancreatic Cancer and here are his last words on the sick bed:
"I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world. In others’ eyes my life is an epitome of success.
However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.
At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and
wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death.
You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.
Material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost – "Life".
When a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book that he has yet to finish reading – "Book of Healthy Life".
Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.
Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends...
Treat yourself well. Cherish others.
As we grow older, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300 or $30 watch - they both tell the same time...
Whether we carry a $300 or $30 wallet/handbag - the amount of money inside is the same;
Whether we drive a $150,000 car or a $30,000 car, the road and distance is the same, and we get to the same destination.
Whether we drink a bottle of $300 or $10 wine - the hangover is the same;
Whether the house we live in is 300 or 3000 sq ft - loneliness is the same.
You will realize, your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.
Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down - you go down with it...
Therefore.. I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven and earth, .... That is true happiness!!
Five Undeniable Facts of Life :
1. Don't educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.
2. Best awarded words in London ... "Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food."
3. The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.
4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human.
Only a few really understand it.
5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between, You have to manage!
NOTE: If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!
Six Best Doctors in the World
1. Sunlight
2. Rest
3. Exercise
4. Diet
5. Self Confidence and
6. Friends
Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy a healthy life.
God loves you!

Thursday, July 26, 2018

日久见人心

真正的魅力,
不是你给对方留下了
美好的第一印象,
而是相识多年后,
依然喜欢和你在一起 。
真正的魅力,
也不是你瞬间吸引了
对方的目光,
而是彼此多年熟悉后,
依然欣赏你的风度 。
真正的魅力,
更不是初见面时
那种相见恨晚的感觉,
而是经过历尽沧桑后,
仍能由衷地对你说
“能认识你真好!”。
---文:慧海大和尚---